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An Ode to a Home

When we were house hunting, we didn’t know what we wanted – we were just excited to finally be together. I remember when we went to view this house. The lawn was unkempt, the whole house wreaked, there were marker drawings all over the walls and carpets, and it was over budget. But for some reason, we were drawn to it. The house was close to my work, not too big and not too small, it overlooked a lake, and the owners loved us. It was meant to be. This house held so many memories – good and bad – and when I closed the door, handed over the keys, and left it for the last time, it was overwhelming. This is where we would begin our life together – but it’s also where our love ended. This is where we set up our first Christmas tree, wrapped garland around the banisters, cooked countless chicken dinners (because that’s all I can seem to cook), watched our favorite TV shows. This house is where we brought …

Don’t Forget

The other day I was eavesdropping on a couple next to me (don’t act like you don’t do it). The lady sat down next to her husband and was reminding him to take his medication, asking him if he remembered to pack Kleenex, and telling him about the long list of to-do’s she has waiting for him back at home. He kept saying, “I won’t forget, I won’t forget, I won’t forget.” And that got me thinking about all the little things I don’t want to forget, the things that are so small, yet so important to me that I couldn’t stand not remembering. Not menial things, but things that from day-to-day, we all tend to forget about because they’re overshadowed by paying the bills, memorizing work presentations, and buying Christmas gifts (still have to do that…) I want to remember all the little things in my every day. To listen. Be curious. Remember birthdays (without an app). Remember things I’ve read, or movies I’ve seen again and again. To memorize the pattern of freckles on …